Nobody Is Ugly; Advice

Hi Everyone! This is the advice blog of nobodyisugly. I had been getting so many questions, I figured I'd make a seperate blog for advice only. You can be anonymous or not, either way you do not need to worry about me judging you! I am here with an open mind. I will give my unbias opinion to anyone who asks for help :)
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Reblogged from somethingsweet-togetyouby on 24-01-2012

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Adopt A Soldier

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Adopt A Soldier is a project that allows you to connect with a member of the American military who is currently deployed. Soldiers who sign up for this usually have no one back home to talk to. It’s completely and 100% free. All you have to do is take 5 minutes out of your day to send your soldier a message of hope and support.

Please reblog this to help promote and ensure the morale of our US military men and women and let them know that they are appreciated.

20-12-2011

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What do you do when someone you would do almost anything for says something that makes you think they don’t plan to be in your life much longer? [And they are aware of how you feel] Anonymous

what did they say to you? i feel like i need more information than that to help you

12-12-2011

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I just learned that my friend is officially diagnosed with bipolar disorder. I'm unsure as to what kind, but he is a self-claimed "impatient insomniac." He told me that I am his only friend and I don't know how to handle that. I truly care about him, but I want to prove him wrong because I believe there are people who care - he just doesn't see it. I'm not sure if this was a wrong move, but I asked him if he was going to commit suicide. He laughed it off and hung up. What should I do? laughtasticmel

you need to be careful because this is a touchy subject. when people are contemplating suicide, they most likely than not dont tell anyone about it at all. keep a close eye on him and see if you notice any drastic changes in behavior. if it gets really serious and to the point where you are 100% sure he is going to do something to harm himself, tell someone.

11-12-2011

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hey beautiful, just wondering what your theme is called? You are a blessing. :) xx Anonymous

sorry im not sure! I think if you click on the author of it at the bottom of my page you can find it

06-12-2011

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I often self harm to get over the bullying I get at school. Whenever I go to school they call me ugly and used to call me fat before I lost a lot of weight. Since losing the weight the only compliment I get is when people call me slim. I need that compliment so much that I have began cutting down on meals. The other day I passed out after feeling dizzy. I’m scared I’m losing too much weight but I can’t stop now, I need those people to keep calling me skinny. I don’t know what to do, please help…

You do not need to go to these extents to lose weight. If you want to be slimmer, DO IT THE HEALTHY WAY. Diet and exercise will give you the results you want without the harmful and dramatic effects on your body. As for self harming, stop. All you are doing is causing yourself more pain in the long run. There are other ways you can let out bad emotions besides doing that (exercise). run. it feels amazing and its very theraputic. Call a friend, listen to music. Do ANYTHING else other than that.

Good luck xoxo

30-11-2011

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Most of my life, I've been pretty happy. Even my friends would tell me that I always have a smile on my face. But lately, I've just been feeling alone and unhappy out of nowhere. And sometimes, it gets to a point where I actually feel angry. There isn't anything for me to be angry about, my problems are pretty mundane. But I'm just finding myself angry. I don't know what to do. Anonymous

No one is happy 24/7. Even if you don’t have that many problems, you will get down every once in a while thats just the reality of being human. Instead of focusing on it, ignore it. It sounds to me like you’re letting these little mood swings control how you feel for the rest of the day. If you find yourself starting to feel bad about things, call a friend, go to the mall/one of your favorite stores and get your mind off things. Watch your favorite movie. Just do things that make you happy and soon you will notice that you aren’t thinking negatively as much.

26-11-2011

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who r u Anonymous

i cant say!

21-11-2011

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I'm not pretty. I never was. And I never will be. It's a lie to say that nobody is ugly... Well, I guess it isn't a lie... Since I'm nobody... (See what I did there? Hahaha..) I wish I was beautiful. Maybe then, people will like me. Personality matters? Lies. People see my face and they scatter. Anonymous

what’s a lie is that you’re not pretty. Just because you haven’t come across anyone who thinks you are doesn’t mean anything, and how do you even know that? Someone may have liked you and just never said anything. If you think of yourself as beautiful (which you are) and carry yourself with confidence, people will notice that and want to be around you. Girls who smile are the prettiest.

19-11-2011

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i just recently moved to another state leaving my friends, two of my brothers and my bf of 14 months behind. It's a devastating feeling because i'm homeschooled so i have no friends here so i'm always alone and have nobody to talk to other than my dad or my little brother. i cut and i am depressed and i feel like i don't know what to do with my life anymore? i'm scared that one day i won't want to wake up and i'll do something stupid </3 Anonymous

Don’t hurt yourself, that’s the last thing you should do.

You can still make friends while being homeschooled. I suggest you get a job, it’s a great way to meet people. I have very good relationships with my coworkers and see them outside of my workplace. You’ll also meet people from the high school in your town. Put yourself out there and people will naturally talk to you.

Good luck (:

09-11-2011

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i'm going to a new school... and i feel that i'm nothing anymore. that everything i do and am and everyone around me is meaningless. now, i guess i just want to get it all over with. i don't pay attention in class...or anything anymore. i'm not doing as well as i used to. and nobody really at the new school likes me. they just laugh at me. you've had the fantastic way of always making me feel beautiful before, and so many others, so i hope it wouldn't be too much to ask for one more favor..help Anonymous

Instead of feeling down because you’re new at a school, take adavantage of it. When I got to college, I was so excited because it was a chance to reinvent myself. No one there knows who you are. Don’t worry about being judged, just be you. It sounds so cheesy but it’s true. If you’re friendly people will just naturally want to be around you and it’ll be easy for you to make friends. Being somewhere new is defenitely scary, but you can turn it around and really make it a good experience for yourself. Find that motivation you had before to do well in school, even though it may seem boring and unimportant, it will lead you down a path for the rest of your life so try your hardest!! Good luck :)